Words cannot describe the amount of emotions that are running through our hearts and minds. Despite the bigger than life personality that Tom exuted we are reminded with the devastation of Tom's untimely death how fragile and short life is. As the days go by Kim, Kayla and Matthew have to pick up the pieces and live life without her husband and their dad. Tom was unemployed when he passed, so a lot of monies and insurance payouts will not be available to them. Please reach in your heart and give whatever you feel. This will be a longterm financial constraint on Kim and the kids.. Thank you much for your generosity and heart felt support.