My name is Nicki, and I am reaching out during one of the most difficult times of my life. For 12 years, I was a housewife, Jeff encouraged me to stay home and care for our home and family. When he decided to leave me, everything changed. Right before he left, he forged my name on a document, taking out a large personal loan and putting our house up as collateral. When he walked away, I was left with the overwhelming responsibility of paying all the bills on my own. The stress was immense, especially as I tried to re-enter the workforce after so many years and at an older age. I managed to find part-time work, but then I was diagnosed with Endometrial Cancer. I had 3 surgeries after that and then one of my dogs got sick and the vet had to put her down after I had her for 13 years. It was devastating. I felt like I was getting knocked down from every angle.

During the divorce, Jeff tried to bankrupt me by wasting my attorney’s time for months on end without getting himself a lawyer. While my attorney charged by 15 minute increments, I was forced to continue to replenish the retainer fees. He finally got a lawyer after we went to court the first time, and then dragged out the divorce.

While going through treatment, I had to take my ex to court for contempt. He is in contempt again, but I cannot take further legal action until I get my house payments caught up. Because of my diagnosis and the costs associated with treatment, I have fallen behind on my mortgage payments. I am now 90 days late, and foreclosure proceedings will begin if I cannot catch up within the next month.

The thought of losing my house while trying to heal has added more stress than I should have. My body is not the same because of the chemotherapy, and the side effects have left me different—with bone pain and extreme fatigue. I also recently found out there has been a change in the wall of my heart. I am positive this is another side effect of the chemo, as previous scans didn't show this issue.

I am still recovering and doing my best to move forward. I have been actively trying to find full-time work, but because of my physical limitations from the cancer treatments and the reality of age discrimination many face, it has been extremely difficult. Right now, I still have my part-time work, which is simply not enough to cover my mortgage and household expenses. My greatest hope is to stay in my home while I continue rebuilding my life and regaining stability. This home represents security, comfort, and the place where I have fought so hard to heal.

The thought of losing my home while battling cancer is terrifying, but I am holding onto hope that with your support, I can get through this.

Any donation, no matter the amount, would mean more than words can express. If you are unable to give, sharing this campaign would also be a tremendous blessing. Your kindness and generosity will help me keep my home and focus on healing. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for reading my story and considering a gift.