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Myra's Need for a place to live

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Hey, everyone. You know God is always good and he has cured me from the cancer that I had. But while I was undergoing treatment, as most of you know, my mother got remarried. I was happy for her. Went to the wedding the week before I had my 2nd therapy session of the 6 that I had. My hair was thin, my neck was huge, but I was there, smiling with her and her new husband. When we had our pictures taken, everyone remained to do it except my Sister. Anyway, 2 years ago, Mom decided that she was going to divide the 22 acres of land. So 22 divided by 5 children, easy, right? Nope. Mom said she couldn't see how to divide the property between 5 children equally and fairly, even though the first survey that was put on record reflects 6 lots. One for Michael, One for David, Two for Roy and Two for Carol. NONE for MYRA! It even showed that my mobile home was situated on a 1.5 acre tract of land that she was going to leave to Roy and he told Mom that I could live there forever. So when she got married, Bill talked her into cleaning out the house of everything that was a memory of hers and my Dad's. Then he talked her into giving up the property to her children and moving up to Columbia on a permanent basis instead of traveling back and forth on a bi-weekly basis. So she did. On July 27, 2017, my Mother conveyed my 1.5 acres plus another acre to my Sister, not to Roy. But let me back up for one second. When Mom decided she was going to get rid of the property, first time she told me that she was selling the property and that the person she was selling it to said that they didn't want me, my Son or the homeless couple that was living with us on the property. So I told her I understood if she was selling the property and was selling the piece of property that I had been on since 1986 to another person, I would expect to have to move. So I asked her, who's buying the property and she tells me oh, I didn't want to have to tell you that, but it's your Sister! I almost fell through the floor. I thought my Sister loved me. I thought she would love having her older Sister living on the property behind her. So in the midst of my cancer treatments, with no vehicle to drive back and forth to my treatments, I moved out of my house into a rental home that belongs to a friend of mine and he bought a truck and handed me the keys to use while I had to go to the Cancer Center. Nice, right? Because my mother's car sat in the front yard for weeks on end with the battery going dead and didn't offer it to me. So then when I finished the cancer, I was planning on moving back home, but then my mother and sister sold my daughter's truck, and informed me that she didn't "EVER" want to see my child cross that driveway "EVER" again. So I figured why in the world would I want to live on a piece of property that wouldn't allow me to have my own child and grandchildren to come see me. And when my child did come across the line to go pick up my grandchildren from my trailer one day, my Sister was there and showed her behind and came over to my trailer telling my child that she couldn't be on the property. So when she got the property put into her name on the 27th of July, 1 week before my birthday, she put up NO Trespassing signs all over the property and told my child she could never come back onto "her" property. But my sister told me that I could live there forever until she got the property in her name and then in September of 2017, she sent me an eviction notice through the mail, which, of course, I did not go pick up but she gave me, in her letter, until December 1st to remove my mobile home from her property, which she claims is "fair", which is where my dilemma comes into. I want to move my mobile home but it's going to cost me around $3000 or so to move it. And then my other dilemma is where do I put it? I have no property since my mother gave my piece of my Dad's property to my sister. I found a 6 acre parcel of land for $18,500 but of course, with no job for 6 months and not able to pay bills and having to turn my Jeep back into Chrysler, I have the worst credit score in the world and cannot obtain a loan for $1800 much less $18,500. And I know, people say the trailer is 28 years old, it's not worth moving, but it's the only place that I have that would be free rent save a mobile home park fee if I was able to move it into a mobile home park, hence why I was looking at the 6 acres for $18,500. So for about $25,000, I could buy the property and move my mobile home onto the property and move the mobile home that my Daughter and I are buying & then I could move back home. Right now I am having to use funds that I really don't have to rent an apartment in Charleston since I cannot go back to my mobile home to live. So I am hoping that some of my friends and family will help me out of this bad situation by donating a few dollars to my fund so that I could at least buy the property down the road and move my trailer so that I don't have to continue living in Charleston in a Condo. I love it but I hate it too. I appreciate all of the donations that I received from my friends and family for my cancer and it's gone, so I am hoping that I receive a little more donations so I can be free of the plight I am in. If you can find it in your heart to donate just a little bit, it would add up and I could get my mobile home off my sister's property that should be mine and get on with my life somewhere else. Oh, and you want to know the reason why my mother decided not to give me any of my Dad's property? It's because I don't like doing yard work so I need to move somewhere that I don't have to do yard work. Is that a good reason to disinherit someone from their father's estate? Plus, when I asked her since everyone else has already received their share of her Estate and Dad's Estate, when would I be getting mine, because she told me she would give me a monetary compensation and she told me "I'm not dead yet. You'll get it when I die." And 20 years ago, she asked me what did I want in the house and I told her 2 things. One a pump pedal Singer sewing machine that belonged to my Aunt Mae and the other an embroidered picture made by my Great-Great Grandmother, who I am named after. She said well one of the other children might want that too so she might have to get copies made. And she said I could have the sewing machine. Well 6 months ago, she gave the sewing machine to my sister-in-law and she took the picture to Columbia with her to put on the wall in her husband's house stating that she wasn't dead yet and wanted the picture, but I believe it's because she knows that picture is the only thing I really and truly wanted from their house. So she took it so I couldn't have it. Anyway, I'll stop and just please ask that you help me out so that I can move onto another piece of property and get my mobile home off my piece of the property that was stolen from me and given to someone that I obviously do not know so that I don't have to go to Court. Thank you all for your continued support and love. Oh, and by the way, my daughter is expecting my 3rd grandchild. A girl this time and she's due TODAY! But of course she didn't come see us today, even though we were involved in an accident where a crazy person who was in his words "just looked down for a second and when he looked up his light was red and he couldn't stop". So I am sure he was looking "down" at his phone. So please if you text and drive or look at your phone for just a "second" this is what could happen to you. But thankfully, the Lord had his precious arms around my car and we didn't have too much damage, but they took Beverly to the hospital to get checked and make sure the Baby was fine. Which I am pleased to say that Mother and Baby are fine and we are all back home in Charleston. I am very stiff and sore but I'll go to the ER on Friday since I wasn't able to do it today. Too concerned about my child and my grandchildren (who were also with us) and my grandchild that hasn't made it here yet. But she will be on Monday if she doesn't decide to come any time this week. :) Thank you so much for reading and I would really appreciate any thing to help us out at this moment in our lives.

Myra S. Whaley
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