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Hello dear friends and family,
As you know, my mother has dementia and she took a traumatic fall on September 23rd. She was found in a wooded area face down for 6-8 hours. She is considered a wanderer. Right now, she's in a rehabilitation center for her broken.Ankle, but upon discharge, we need to put her in a memory care facility as soon as possible. The cost is outrageous!! I did find a little place for her that I think would be perfect.It is a house on a lake.It's five bedrooms, and she will be around other people with memory issues. We are short money on paying the difference.Which is $5000. I did apply for medicaid, but that will take up to forty five days to get approved. Her regular insurance doesn't cover any of this. So it's all on us. Once her medicaid kicks in, they will pick up what we are lacking. I really hate to ask for any financial help.But right now, we are in a bind. I cannot sell my mother's house due to a reverse mortgage.It's a long story but it cannot be sold until she dies. Because that would be the next best thing that we should do.But we cannot unfortunately. Any help would be greatly appreciated. I just need to get her going.And once the medicaid kicks in, we should be fine. But right now, i'm just looking for any donations to help me get through this terrible situation.That i'm. I'm her health advocate by proxy. She cannot be left alone.She scored very low on the memory test. She is a danger to herself. We cannot be with her twenty four hours a day.We cannot give her that kind of care. We are not skilled nurses or doctors.We can visit her, but we cannot do or give what she needs medically. I appreciate from the bottom of my heart.Any donations that you can give. I still believe God has a purpose for her. It says put a tremendous strain on me and my family. I feel like i'm going a hundred miles an hour. I just need some relief. Below some pictures of her from when she fell in the wooded area.And some of her in the hospital, and some of her are now at the rehab. Getting old is something that we're all going to go through. I pray that nobody has to go through dementia and memory loss.It's a terrible disease. God bless all of you thank you, anything will help. I just need to get her through a couple of months and then hopefully the medicaid will kick in. I am praying, and I am depending on God, to calm my heart and my soul because I know that he will provide for her. Anybody that knows my mother, especially those back in high school days, know what kind of person my mother was. Always letting the friends come over, always feeding them, always letting everyone in the pool have parties break dancing in the driveway.She really was a good mom. I just feel like i'm at my wits end. I don't wish this on anyone. Again, I appreciate donations.This would just be a one time thing, whatever I get.I get, but it will all be used towards her memory care facility or hime heakth care. Thank you in advance and God bless you all!






