My life has changed overnight!!! Please consider...

So on Sunday September 22 I was taken to the emergency room with a pain like I have never experienced in my life.. once there some tests were run on my neck and I was emergency transported to Toledo hospital to see the neurological surgeon... I was told that the injury was "Significant" and requires surgery ASAP.. once the surgery began to remove 2 discs in my c3 and 4 they found they were lodged deeply in my spinal cord and had to scrape the discs out carefully to not do anymore damage to the cord .. I was told if I had been I day later I would have been paralyzed from the neck down.. during the surgery the discovered that the c-5 and 6 are also in need of fusion because they are on their way to doing the same thing and that I will need another surgery... I now have plates and screws in my neck and will not be able to do much for months.. and I will have to find a new career path as I will never be able to do construction again... My life has been completely turned upside down in one evening... I absolutely hate, as do so many others, to ask for help... However, I am a bit desperate at the moment.. most who know me know my wife has had health issues for a long time as well.. we are just trying to survive at this point... Anything will be greatly appreciated... We are devastated by this news as a family but we know that God will be with us along the way as well as our friends and family....