My Ex-Coworker Is Stalking Me Digitally. I Need Help.

He’s Been Watching Me Through My Devices. I’m Going To Catch Him.

My name is Dominique. I’m a former executive assistant in biotech, and I’ve spent the last few months trying to stay calm while my reality was slowly getting hijacked.

I believe I’m being stalked—digitally—by a man I used to work with.

I’m not saying that lightly. I’m saying it after months of patterns, interference, and the kind of tech behavior that’s way too specific to be random.

Here’s what started happening after I left my job:

• Every time I said something near my phone, my Mac’s location services would activate—as if he was listening in and triggering it remotely.

• My Bluetooth keyboard would switch to a channel I’ve never used—while I was typing—and completely lock me out.

• Citrix files (remote access tools) appeared on my laptop. I never installed them.

• My screen would freeze, flash, or lag—always just enough to feel like I was being watched.

• Activity Monitor showed system-level processes I didn’t recognize—and didn’t authorize.

This man used to have access to my tech. He had motive. He had clearance.

He had the skill.

I’ve been no contact with my family for two years, left a toxic job after reporting discrimination, and had just started building my own business—my way out.

But this man followed me out of that job and into my devices.

Now I’ve had to pause everything—just to gather evidence, monitor patterns, and figure out how deep this goes.

Let me be clear: this is digital abuse.

And I’m not going to let it slide.

Why I’m Asking for $150,000

This isn’t just about rent. I’m fundraising to replace my full income while I build a case and hold this man accountable—without having to choose between survival and justice.

Here’s where the money goes:

• $79,200 – 12 Months of Income Replacement

($6,600/month to cover rent, food, bills, and daily survival while I pause work to document what’s happening)

• $5,000 – Tech Replacement + Clean Setup

(MacBook, phone, keyboard, and an isolated system for monitoring activity)

• $10,000 – Cybersecurity + Forensics

(To trace unauthorized access and prepare court-admissible reports)

• $35,000 – Legal Fees + Full Case Support

(Consultation, retainer, filings, court appearances, and follow-through)

• $5,000 – Press + Public Accountability Strategy

(Because if the system won’t protect people like me quietly, I’ll make sure it has to do it publicly)

• $3,000 – Phone Forensics + Recovery Tools

(Monthly service, spyware scans, and extraction tools)

• $12,800 – Taxes, GoFundMe Fees, and Emergency Buffer

(So I don’t get penalized for asking for help)

I’m not afraid of the truth.

I’m afraid of letting someone like this believe he can keep getting away with it.

I’ve already tried doing this quietly.

Now I’m going to do it loud.

If you’ve ever been watched, violated, or gaslit about what you know is happening—this story is for you, too.

And if you’ve ever said, “someone should do something”—

I’m someone. And I’m doing something.

If you can’t donate, I still deeply appreciate your support.

Even watching, liking, commenting, and sharing this campaign helps push it in front of the people who can.

You can follow my updates and the full case journey on TikTok: @domwillcatchhim

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