Asking for help for a grave stone for my Beloved Mum, Sandra

This photograph is of my Beloved Mum, Sandra. I am her Son, Tobias. My lovely Mum passed away just before Christmas last year after a 7 year journey with dementia. I was her sole carer for almost all that time. Prior to that, my beautiful Mum cared for me for nearly 20 years, as I was born with poor health and have had a lifetime of health issues.- I spent most of my 20's and early 30's either housebound or at times bed-bound. She never let me down and cared for me for all that time, until she contracted double pneumonia around 7 years ago, which changed the course of her life..and ultimately started her downhill spiral into dementia. Despite my own poor health, I did my best to care for her..for most of that time, it was just her and I.

Ma was an AMAZING Mum to me, and I did my best for her. When she passed, she didn't even leave enough money for her own funeral/burial..only around half what was needed. I had to apply for a 'funeral expenses payment' from the government to cover the rest of these costs- I am very grateful that I received it. I am asking now though for help with paying for a grave stone, in memory of my Beloved Mum and all that she did for me..and so many others. It would be my dream to also have a bench in her honour, somewhere in the grounds of our beautiful Abbey..which was my Mother's favourite place.

I would be so very grateful for any help that you could give. Thank you, Tobias.