Saving my wife’s life



My beautiful wife, her life is in the balance, she has only come into my life recently becoming my wife and now fate may be snatching her away. I’m here trying to raise funds to save her life. On the 8th of September my wife complained of a severe headache and it transpired that she had suffered from severe bleeding within the brain, for which she has undergone 2 brain surgeries and is now fighting for her life and is in critical condition. I need assistance and donations towards her medical care, I have already depleted all my savings and exhausted all avenues, this is my last hope to save her life and have her in my loving arms once more. My wife is in the only available specialist hospital in Pakistan , who are charging £5k per week for her care. Please help me to give my wife a fighting chance, she just needs all the help she can get.

I met her and I knew straight away she was the one. We just clicked. We fell in love so fast and ever since that first day we spoke our love just grew and grew to the point I asked her to be my wife in a matter of a few months. She said yes straight away and finally my whole life made sense, everything in my life had led me to this day, the day I married her. We had a beautiful wedding surrounded by family and friends, I am the luckiest guy to have her love.  My wife told me she was suffering from a severe migraine. She went to local doctors out there and received migraine medication. The next day it had gotten worse accompanied by vomiting. She went to see another doctor and was told she has food poisoning and sent away again. Day three it got so bad she started loosing vision in her left eye. I implored her to visit the hospital. Upon arriving to the hospital she collapsed and started having a seizure.

The doctors rushed her into A&E and performed a scan on her brain, where they found severe bleeding on the right side of her brain in the parietal lobe (AVM). She was rushed into surgery to evacuate the bleeding. It was hoped that this would improve and the bleeding would stop. The surgeon evacuated as much of the bleed as possible, however he was unable to to complete the surgery as he would have liked, due to oedema (swelling) and necrotic tissue.  By the next morning the doctors performed a second scan whereby unfortunately there was a further massive bleed within the brain, and she was rushed into surgery for a second time. This time the doctors placed clamps onto two bleeds within the brain. Her brain is swollen so badly that her skull currently cannot be reattached. She is currently on ventilation and doctors are expecting for her to remain like this until a further CT. However, they will not look to keep her on ventilation and would expect to ween her off given the CT results are promising.  She has had 3 chronic episodes of seizures, involving her upper arm. They are treating her for this. They are currently treating her with mannitol to reduce the swelling. This would be expected as it is a diuretic used typically for brain oedema. 

My wife has been in hospital since 10th September and currently my wife is in a coma, but she is showing signs of improvements, today she held my hand tightly and responded to my voice. Today she has lifted my heart by trying to open her eyes. I know I can get my wife back, I just need to fight for it. I have used every resource, I have depleted all my funds my father is retired mum doesn’t work I don’t know what to do I need help I ask and urge please if anyone can donate and help me to help my wife I would be grateful beyond belief I know in my heart that she will make it I have hope, it’s my duty as her husband to explore every avenue to provide her with the best treatment. My life has completely turned upside down in a matter of a few days. Unfortunately she currently rests in an almost coma-Like state, fighting for her life, there are good signs she is breathing by her self with no assistance if she makes it she will most likely have a loss if not very reduced function on left side of body.

Please anything will help. I need your help to save my wife’s life. And my life rest in hers. And if it is by the will of God she will make it through this! Please please pray I thank all of you so far for your donations may god bless you and your families ❤

Donations ()

  • Najaf Amna 
    • £5 
    • 2 d
  • SAMAN IMTIAZ 
    • £30 
    • 1 mo
  • Maleeha Haq 
    • £50 
    • 2 mos
  • Abdul Malik 
    • £9 
    • 2 mos
  • Anonymous 
    • £50 
    • 2 mos
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Organizer

Arslan Qurban 
Organizer
Walsall, West Midlands, United Kingdom
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