Monthly Bills and Emergency Health Care

I never anticipated doing this–but I am not sure where to turn. My mother and I are both in great need, and her recent illness has intensified this. Please read below for the details.

As many of you know, I lost my tenured position as Associate Professor of Humanities in November 2023. This was because of "financial exigencies" at the university. I worked HARD at Lee–teaching a very large course load, bringing in many guest speakers, organizing many events, and publishing a lot in the midst of it. Much of what went on really affected my physical and mental health, and I am still recovering.

When I found out I lost my job, I was in the process of moving my (85-year-old now) mother to live near me. We could not really change this plan. Since losing my position, I have been searching high and low for jobs that I could do without moving my mother and me (I think another move is too much for both of us, especially her). I have taught adjunct courses locally, in NYC, and in Vancouver (via Zoom), spoken at conferences, written articles, taken on proofreading jobs, etc. I am not physically able to do a "normal" 9-5 in-person job as my migraines have become much more chronic since the job loss. I can teach because I am typically able to organize classes for the afternoon, which are much easier for me (when my medication kicks in).

About a month ago, my mother started feeling unusually exhausted and really unwell. We have been to three medical providers and the ER, and are still figuring out pieces of the puzzle. I do not want to give too many details as this is her private health info (not mine), but please trust me when I tell you that she cannot be alone, and I have stayed with her for a solid month, sleeping on a couch. It has been extremely hard for both of us. I had to cancel my trip to teach in Vancouver to teach at Regent College (thankfully, they let me teach on Zoom).

My mother needs treatment, and I am hoping to be able to pay some people to stay with her off and on when I need a break. We do not have this money. I have recently used up all of my severance and savings, and I was already concerned about how to make it until I get paid for teaching in Sept. (even the Regent pay does not come until Oct).

I am teaching five classes in the fall at three different institutions–and it is still not enough to pay my bills, let alone help my mom (who does not have the resources herself).

We both really need a lot of help, and it is humbling and embarrassing to ask. But I am praying that some folks understand and come forward to help in this time of need. Thank you for reading.