(name/identifying information has been changed for safety reasons)

Hi.

June 2026 Update:

We are in the Home Stretch—Ready for Safe, Independent Housing

Thank you to the 23 donors who have kept my hope alive.

I am a mother navigating CPTSD, panic disorder, and chemical sensitivities after 26 years of abuse at the hands of my daughter's father. Currently, I am forced to cohabitate with him as roommates because the local housing crisis is out of reach on my stable $1,600/month income.

Because the system does not recognize non-physical, psychological, or financial abuse as grounds for abuse and thus, prioritized assistance, I have been left on my own to find a way out.

This is my self-directed escape plan, and I am making real progress:

Job Training Breakthrough: After two years of searching, I have secured a reliable job coach at a local agency. We are currently finalizing funding for my career training to increase my income.

Somatic Healing: I am actively working with a somatic practitioner to overcome my PTSD and panic disorder so I can safely drive, work, and navigate the world again.

Controlled Environment: I have established firm, counselor-backed boundaries in the home to keep the environment as stable as possible for my daughter while we build our bridge out.

Specific Housing Need: Because of my chemical sensitivities (I cannot tolerate synthetic fragrances, perfumes, or dryer sheets) and trauma recovery, shared apartment complexes or standard roommate situations are a direct threat to my health. I am seeking a private, stable, fragrance-free rental, such as a Mother-in-Law (MIL) suite, cottage, or small home.

Where Your Donation Goes:

*$4,000: Safe rental setup (First, last, and deposit for a private, fragrance-free space)

*$3,000: Reliable used car for work, medical appointments, and basic transportation

$1,500-$2,000: Moving costs and basic household essentials

$500: Emergency buffer for unexpected transition costs

Every single dollar—whether it is $5 or $50—adds up quickly and directly funds our physical freedom. If you cannot donate, please share our link. Your share could reach the exact mindful landlord or donor we are praying for.

With deep gratitude for honoring my safety and journey.

— J.D. (Anonymous for our ongoing safety)

Here is what some of my friends wanted to say:

"(name redacted) is my friend. I have seen firsthand his behavior. I have found him to be impolite; he interrupts conversations loudly and boldly. He has no respect for boundaries, lacks accountability and responsibility for his behavior, and plays the victim card." (KR)

"I have known (name redacted) for several years. What I know for sure is that she is courageous in every way: in speaking her truth to withstanding the unthinkable abuse she has been subject to, to being a mama bear when it comes to protecting and supporting her young daughter. She is stronger than she knows, rising again and again, like the phoenix from the fire. In my opinion, she deserves immense support to aid her in leaving an untenable, destructive marriage and in establishing a safe, loving home for herself and for her daughter.” (DG)

In the 7 years I’ve known (name redacted), I have found her to be a caring friend, a loving mother, and a tenacious spiritual warrior. I have heard her husband abruptly yelling (through the phone) over what should have been trivial matters. His tone is loud and jarring. (name redacted) has requested prayers and funds for me when I was in need, as I know she has for others. If you can pay it forward, I know it would be a huge blessing for her and her daughter.” (LH)

(Name redacted) has shared with me the treatment from her husband that she has endured for many years, and no one should have had to put up with being treated like that and having to walk on eggshells because of not knowing what will set him off. I have found (name redacted) to be genuine and honest, and I'm honored to have her as a friend and to be communicating with her. Please help support (name redacted) and her daughter so they can be able to leave and live a normal life free of stress, ridicule, and abuse.

(PL)