*** UPDATE***

Hi, my name is Tammy and as some of you that are close to me may know I've recently been diagnosed with stage 5 dementia and I've had Fibromyalgia for quite some time now.as well..

Unfortunately, there is no way for us to avoid a shelter after the 29th of November. We were blessed enough that the state was able to give a motel room until then... At that time we will go into a shelter. During the last episode of domestic violence Jayden got into trouble trying to protect me.. So that has me concerned as well.. It is possible that we wont be able to leave the state.. If that happens, things will get so much worse for us.. Due to my dementia I'm afraid that the shelter may not be the safest place for us and due to all of the stress my condition seems to be progressing quite quickly.. Jayden didnt even know that I would eventually pass from this until yesterday It completely broke my heart. I run the risk of losing my child if the judge doesn't feel that I can keep him safe due to my condition.. My oldest son is prepared to take guardionship and care for both of us but I have to be in Jersey for him to do so.. In that area is where we need prayers.

When my divorse is final I would like to be prepared to leave, however right now I dont have the means to do so. The smallest things I struggle with now and I dont even know how to post this on all of social media platfforms.. If someone in the Phoenix west valley of could help me that would be greatly appreciated..A week ago I thought that my mother and my mother in law were still alive and when I was told that they werent you can only imagine the pain and confusion that I felt. I've applied for disability but that process takes more time than I have right now and the stress and pressure are unbelievable. My doctors told me that it was important that I get enough sleep but that is now impossible.. In the past I've always been independent, so asking for help right now is very hard for me...I need a safe place for me and my child until we can get back on our feet and are able to start a new life.. I dont have the means to start over so even the smallest amount of help would be a blessing and it would give us a chance to have a better life. 

Thank you in advance from the bottom of our hearts,

Tammy and Jayden

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