miso’s needed surgery :(

i honestly hate to do this, but i’ve exhausted all options. miso has been diagnosed with idiopathic cystitis (lower urinary tract disease) and has now been to the er twice with blockages. i’ve funneled all the money and resources i have into getting him better, but unfortunately we are now looking at perineal urethrostomy. no pressure on anyone at all but anything helps, i’ve worried myself sick and i just want my baby to get better.