This is a big step outside of my comfort zone, but here I am.
ADHD. CPTSD. On the autism spectrum. Negotiating forced menopause (surgical).
My mom can’t remember, and doctors don’t seem to study menopause. Add to that a late neurodivergent diagnosis, and it feels immense, in a time when health care and insurance are quirky at best.
I'm not lazy, and I’ve always worked.
I’m at a place in my life where I have every single symptom of every diagnosis I’ve collected. I need help sorting through this crazy intersection.
I’ve created wish lists for items that could be purchased to help with specific coping.
I’ve researched the most effective tests as well as explaining why these tests are helpful, although typically not covered by insurance.
Some of the items I’ve already purchased and would love to share my results with others also navigating similar situations.
My ultimate goal is to share all of the helpful (and not helpful) information I gather while reaching for my own version of peace.





