Memorial for Crystal Kilmer

Crystal was a beautiful, loving, huge hearted person dedicated to her five children. On September 22, 2021 the family and her five children lost Crystal to suicide. No one in the family truly knew all the pain and pressure Crystal was hiding behind her big beautiful smile. Now we live with haunting questions that will forever be in the back of our minds because we missed the signs of how much Crystal was suffering. Crystal's children were her life, her EVERYTHING, and that's why this makes no sense. She helped everyone as much as she could and touched many people's lives, but to lose her in such a way is not only an absolute shock and tragedy, is something that will haunt her family and children forever.

We not only want to support Crystal and bring to light the seriousness about the illness of suicide, but help her surviving children begin to cope and continue to grow in life the way Crystal would have wanted them to. Such a permanent decision is often made because of temporary problems in life before they realize the devastating outcomes it leaves for everyone else. The pain is real and the agony of Crystal's death, with all the unanswered questions and trying to continue on with their lives is something Crystal's children and family will forever have to feel now.

These funds will not only help us have the memorial dinner for Crystal that she deserves, but help get the children support with the trauma they've experienced and help them to continue on with their lives.

Crystal is going to be cremated and we are trying to get cremation jewelry for each individual child. The rest of the funds will be split up between the five children for future expenses. We would appreciate if you could donate or share this page in hopes that Crystal's story is met with compassion, understanding and abundant generosity. Thank you!