Hey y'all! Thanks for stopping by. I will tell you a story.

There was a little kid, some time ago. Blond hair, blue eyes, talking all the time. They were about 3 or 4 years old, at kindergarten, and for the first time they wondered why they were different from all the other girls, and yet they did not want to be completely like the boys.

This kid liked to wear large pants and shirts, with short hair and topless in their bathing suit until it was no longer allowed. They liked how they were, they thought they were cool, and yet there was always something itching inside.

When people were like "oh, what a cute boy!" the kid felt weird inside. That was not what they wanted, but when people corrected themselves saying "oh sorry, it's a girl" they felt even worse. There was no solution. The kid thought they were condemned to feel like that forever.

Growing up, they tried it all, searching themselves in the wrong places and with the wrong people, almost giving up - until they came across the term "non-binary." The rest is (my) history.

Long story short - 20+ years later from that first thought, I finally found the voice to express who I am. I am a trans non-binary person, and I have dreamt about this moment for too long.

I decided to take a step toward myself and get top surgery in the fall of 2023. However, Belgium does not recognise surgery as a gender-affirming surgery covered by health insurance, hence I have to pay for it out of my pocket.

So, if you have the possibility to support this dream of mine that would finally allow me to breathe and walk chin up without feeling uncomfortable inside all the time - well, I would be extremely grateful to you.

FYI, this is the breakdown of the costs:

Surgery - 3880 euros

Medical appointments (5) - 375 euros

Medical binder - 90 euros

Extra - i don't know, but something

Funny bonus content - this post is from February 2020. I think it's even before I changed my pronouns. I was always there https://www.instagram.com/p/B8otylGo7B2/