Marcie Westwood, Helping a friend

My dear friend Marcie and her family have experienced tragedy beyond what I could ever imagine.  I am reaching out to ask that anyone out there that can help Marcie make ends meet through the upcoming months to please help!  Below is the note Marcie posted to her facebook page about her dear husband Ben. 
-------------------------------------------------------------------

Thank you to all of you, childhood friends, high school friends, my support group, my family, my in laws, my dogs, my coworkers new and old. Your love and support is felt deep down. I am sorry to those who I have not responded too, I assure you I feel you.

I have not kept up on here, as it has been overwhelming, but when I am ready I will get to see all of your heart felt messages.

I was not prepared for my love to leave. Our dreams were all in motion. I wake u...p waiting for my "good morning hunny", and I lay at night trying to talk to my love. He loved my strength, and I know I have to find it again for him.... But for now i can not.

For those who knew Ben "spanky" know that I loved him more then I ever thought I was capable! There was no dream of his I didn't or wouldn't have tried to make come true. He was and is my love, my life , my everything!

For those who knew only me, You know how much all of this is true. He accepted everything about me and loved me for it. He helped make me everything that I am!

For those of you who knew us as a couple, Our quirky say anything love, a mutual respect, and the truest love that exists. We didn't waste time in our relationship, because we knew.

Thank you all for your love and concern and your respects to my love. Thank you again for your love and concern for me. I am in good hands with my support of family and friends, they are ensuring I have and am getting the help I need to make it