We are devastated to share that, on Saturday, December 13th, our dear friends A.J. Barks and Matt Siemer were in a horrific car accident. Tragically, Matt died at the scene. A.J. survived and is currently in the ICU at Carle Foundation Hospital in Urbana, Illinois, where she remains under medical sedation as doctors work to reduce swelling in her brain. While she is stable, the coming days and weeks are uncertain, and her recovery will be a long road.

A.J. is someone who shows up for everyone — with strength, compassion, and deep care. Right now, she cannot speak for herself, and we are coming together as her community to support her in the way she has always supported others.

We are raising funds to help cover A.J.’s mounting medical expenses and rehabilitation and recovery needs during the months ahead, as well as funeral and memorial services for Matt, whose life and generosity touched so many. The financial burden during this time is significant and immediate, and any support will help ease that weight so A.J. and both families can focus on healing and grieving.

A.J. is surrounded by love — from family, close friends, and an extended community that is holding her with everything we have. We ask you to please keep sending your love, strength, and support to A.J., to her family, and to Matt’s family as they navigate this unimaginable situation.

If you are able, please consider donating or sharing this page. Your support right now will make a real difference to A.J. and her and Matt's families.

You can read a beautiful tribute to Matt from Mobile Care Chicago here.

Thank you for your love and support.