Hey everyone,
This isn’t an easy message for me to write, but I’m at a point where I can’t keep pretending I’m okay. For the past six months, I’ve been doing everything I can to stay afloat — working full-time from home, taking care of my three babies, managing school drop-offs and pick-ups, and trying to keep up with all the bills and rent on my own. On top of that, I’ve also been caring for 11 dogs (9 of them puppies) that my kids’ dad wanted but I’ve ended up being fully responsible for.
I love my kids and all our animals deeply, but I’m exhausted and completely overwhelmed. Their father isn’t able to help financially, and his family isn’t stepping in either. I’ve been doing my best to stay strong, but truthfully… I’m struggling. I’ve lost a lot of weight — not in a healthy way — and I’m fighting to keep my head up for my kids. Every day I put on a smile and say “I’m okay,” but I’m not.
So today, I’m letting my pride go and asking for help. If you’re able to lend a hand — whether it’s financial support, groceries, a resource, or even helping find homes for the puppies — I would be so incredibly grateful. Anything helps right now as I work to climb out of this sinkhole and get back on stable ground for my kids.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart for taking the time to read this and for any kindness you’re able to share. ❤️
— Deanna




