LaVelle Kidney Transplant Help

Everything has come back to normal except his kidney. Velle has been on dialysis for over a year. We are now able to take the next step, kidney transplant. I'm blessed to be a match for my son I wouldn't want it any other way. As a mother I want to give my son as much as I possibly can and allowing him to live with my kidney.
I am asking for assistance with medical cost and lost wages from work as I will not be allowed to work for a number of weeks following the surgery. My son, daughter, and I appreciate any help that can be given!