
Kathi’s funeral expenses - anything helps
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My aunt Kathi passed away suddenly October 4th 2020 our family is in need of financial help to lay her to rest. Please help if you can anything will help. She has 4 children the youngest daughter is a college student at the u of m and her oldest daughter was her full time care taker.
Kathi passed away from Sudden Cardiac Arrest this past week. Her youngest son simply wanted to see his mommy again and has put the entire service on a credit card. Please help us pay his card off, even $10/$20 will help.
She was a great mother who had her faults. She suffered from severe cognitive and physical disabilities since her catastrophic car accident in 2007 that left her with severe disabilities and in a wheelchair.
Her life revolved around constant doctor appointments and physical therapy. It was hard for her to get around on her own as she was no longer able to drive. She always wore shorts as she felt judged for using a wheelchair, so people could see her leg deformity from the car accident. Even the week before she died a little boy asked “why is that lady in a wheelchair??”
Life was extremely hard for her. She suffered severe depression and mood disorders. She felt like a burden and was in constant pain. She was hospitalized early in the year for a few weeks, she went in preCovid and exited to a full on pandemic shutdown.
The shutdown was hard on her and her family. Everyone was so scared she would die of the virus, they protected her at all cost. Even limiting visits only for her to not die of the virus but due to her frail heart.
This is why it was so important to her son for her to have a funeral. He wanted that last chance for him and everyone to see her. And she would have loved her funeral. It may not have been big and grand like some, but it was small and intimate and heartwarming.
It allowed her family to see her one last time. Her husband who was away working and her other son who lives a state away. Her daughters the ability to see her at peace after witnessing her death. Her youngest son to see her at peace and not with a tube in her mouth.
He had came home from vacation to the Smokey Mountains the day before and was planning to see her the day she died. He had presents he bought on vacation he was never able to give her. Please help him and his family during this time of agony.
Thank you
Organisator
Melissa Moyer
Organisator
Belleville, MI