Kapis family fire fund

Hi, my name is Joelle Kapis Holland.  I'm from Elizabeth Township, Pennsylvania.  For the last couple of years I've been the primary live-in caregiver for my dad, Joe, who has Alzheimer's disease.  This past July my family and I had to make the tough decision to move dad into an Alzheimer's care facility.  I have Multiple Sclerosis and I didn't feel like I could keep him safe and happy at home anymore.  It was one of the hardest decisions I've ever had to make.

Three days ago on December 28 I was at the grocery store when I got a terrifying phone call from my neighbor telling me that my home was on fire.  She was crying so I knew it was really bad.  This is the home that I shared with my dad.  It's been in our family for generations.  I called my baby sister, Sarah,  right away so she could meet me there.  When I finally got within a half mile of home I could see smoke pouring into the sky,  There were at least four different fire departments that I could see as I made my way toward the house.   It felt like a nightmare when I looked up to see what was left of my home.   It was still burning but it was obvious that it couldn't be saved.  I found my sister among the crowd of people and we just held onto each other crying .  We knew there wasn't anything we could do.  Everything would be lost for sure.  My mom passed away and her ashes were inside.  All of our family photos, my dad's artwork, my parents wedding rings etc.  All gone.  Every stitch of clothing, my medication etc.  Gone.  I know these things can be replaced and I'm extremely thankful that no one was injured but it's still been a devastating loss.  I'm also very grateful to the friends and neighbors who have offered their prayers and support during this stressful time.

I'm staying with my wonderful  best friend, Dee,  for the time being.  I'm the type of person who likes to do the helping not ask for it.  This feels so awkward for me but I really need to ask for some support this time.  Not only for me but for my dad as well.  Alzheimer's facilities are extremely expensive (over $5000 per month) and we aren't wealthy people.  I was planning to put our home up for sale soon and put that money towards his  care.  I have to completely start over myself.  We do have insurance but it won't help pay my dad's bills.    My wonderful sister actually went and purchased underwear for me because I truly lost every single thing I had.  I can't work anymore due to my disease and survive on longterm disability from my previous job. 

Any donation would be greatly appreciated so I can try to get my and my dad's life back together.  I would be eternally grateful to everyone who can find it in their heart to maybe help a little.    This would mean so much to us.  I can't find the words to express how much.

I'll update this page with any news when I can.  Thanks so much for even taking the time to read my story.  CBS news Elizabeth twp fire