It is with shattered hearts that we share the tragic and senseless loss of our beloved Tristan Abernathy.

Tristan was taken from us far too soon, and our lives will never be the same. He was a bright light in our family. Tristan had a spirit that could fill a room, a smile that could light up even the darkest days, and a heart full of love for those around him.

No family is ever prepared for a loss like this — especially one caused by violence. The pain we are feeling is unimaginable, and while we are grieving, we are also seeking justice for Tristan.

We will not let his name be forgotten, and we will continue to stand strong as we seek answers and accountability. Tristan’s life mattered. He mattered to us, to his family, and to everyone who knew and loved him. We ask that you stand with us — not only in helping us lay him to rest, but also in honoring his life and supporting the call for justice.

As we navigate this devastating time, we are also facing the financial burden of giving Tristan the memorial service he deserves. We are asking for help to cover funeral and memorial expenses so we can properly honor his life.

Any donation, no matter how small, will go directly toward these expenses. If you are unable to give, we ask that you please keep our family in your prayers and share this page to help us spread the word.

Thank you for standing with us, for loving Tristan, and for helping us honor his memory.

We will continue to speak his name.

We will continue to fight for justice.

And we will carry Tristan in our hearts forever.

Rest peacefully, Tristan. You are deeply loved and will never be forgotten.

With love,

The Abernathy Family