Joshua Thomas Cacy-McFarland

Dear Family and Friends,

As you all know Josh has been battling pancreatic cancer for nearly 10 years. For those who know Josh, we expected him to fight for many more years because he never gave up on life due to his love for this life. He pushed through being in and out of the hospitalizations--fighting pain, frustration, diabetes, night sweats and life in general. He always pushed with every inch of his body and spirit to show up for his loved ones, even if it meant going and having to lay on the couch or sitting in a chair in the corner.

Josh loved spirituality and connecting to others because he was always aware of his precious time on this earth. He remained present throughout his pain and loved with all of his being. I loved him instantly when I met him in high school--he was genuine and so easy to be around, which made it so easy for me to be myself. We moved on to going to the same college and I remember seeing him out and about and that always made me feel like I was at home--being we were 4 hours away from home. We were not dating, but we were friends and it was wonderful. His personality was magnetic and he always had something so funny and witty to say!

Josh loved to dance, to do Zen floral arrangements, to write poetry, to read both science fiction and spiritual writings, he loved to cook delicious meals and most of all he loved connecting with people. He practiced being present naturally and when I reunited with him in April 2018, my heart instantly fell for him with just one look into his eyes. I never would have imagined choosing him as a life partner, but I knew God had this planned all along. We had 6 beautiful years together with our kids--doing our best to live our best lives despite all the pain and suffering it entailed.

These past years have been a struggle for our family and that is why I come to you asking for any blessings or donations from your heart. We are planning to have a cremation ceremony and the celebration of life per Josh's wishes. There will not be a funeral. He wanted everyone to be joyful and at peace when they think of him. For that, I am trying to ensure all family members can make it because this would mean the most to Josh. He will forever be remembered and missed and I thank everyone for being a part of his life and sharing your precious time with him too. I love you all on behalf of Josh. Thank you and God bless!