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Hello,
The many details follow
My health is failing...
In October, my salivary gland blew up like a balloon, and I went to the ER. Shortly after, I was admitted on a non-covid19 floor, where I stayed the next 2 or 3 days.
It turned out, a filling in one of my bottom wisdom teeth had cracked. It was most likey the cause of my swollen glad and it's accompanied bacterial infection.
My marriage has failed...
My name is Jeff William and I have fallen on some hard times, indeed.
The months of October and November of 2020, have been a catastrophe.
So, I am reaching out to anyone that might be able to help me out. Even if it's five dollars. I and my 3 chihuahuas would greatly appreciate it. Not one cent of it will be wasted.
First, I am newly diagnosed with cancer.
I've put any concerns into that because, I am currently living in a unhealthy, and abusive situation with my soon to be ex husband.
Where he has often been emotionally manipulative, psychologically abusive and just plain unsupportive, a mean and narcissistic gaslighter, he has now added violent actions to his destructive threats.
We are separated, but living in the same home and my overall health is suffering because of it. I have other, ongoing health concerns above and beyond my new oral cancer diagnosis and treatment is needed badly on a few issues, but I've had to hunker down and set that aside.
I need to move and have found a city where all of my needs can be met.
It has good public transportation, good job opportunities for me, affordable rentals I can keep up with and not give up my dogs for, as well as, some solid, established, and healthy friendships that will only improve by being near.
The many details follow
My health is failing...
In October, my salivary gland blew up like a balloon, and I went to the ER. Shortly after, I was admitted on a non-covid19 floor, where I stayed the next 2 or 3 days.
It turned out, a filling in one of my bottom wisdom teeth had cracked. It was most likey the cause of my swollen glad and it's accompanied bacterial infection.
My marriage has failed...
Not two days out of the hospital, my then husband of 9 yrs (with a short separation in between) and I decided to end what had been a volatile and abusive relationship. He had been adulterous the night prior and spent many days preparing this new relationship online.
Spending nearly each and every day and especially night with this new man in our home and his bed since that night. Knowing I would still be here and be forced to witness it all.
More bad news for my health...
More bad news for my health...
While working on my wisdom tooth my dentist noticed a dark spot on the roof of my mouth and recommended an oral cancer screening that was confirmed resulting in a small tumor, located in my tongue, as well.
They also noticed a small, bump and lesion on my nose and recommended I have a biopsy in which I tested positive for basel cell carcinoma.
Owning one vehicle amongst us, I was sometimes late for work due to swapping it out with my husband. My lesions grew, became infected, would ooze, bleed and bandaids would often fall off.
My short term memory, thinking ability, dexterity, hand grasping, equilibrium, all took hits and effected my waiting tables.
Last Friday, I had made one too many mistakes, could not be on time, no matter how early I started to prepare and the next day, I was fired.
Staring at the text message from my boss, in shock, hearing the yelling, anger and accusations, from my ex, in the other. I couldn't even dry off after my shower. I was numb.
That same evening, around 11:45 pm, driving to get a Big Mac in thick fog, I slammed into the broad side of a deer at 50mph. The car was hissing, smoking and the front end crumpled. Basically undrivable.
They also noticed a small, bump and lesion on my nose and recommended I have a biopsy in which I tested positive for basel cell carcinoma.
I lost a new job I was loving...
Owning one vehicle amongst us, I was sometimes late for work due to swapping it out with my husband. My lesions grew, became infected, would ooze, bleed and bandaids would often fall off.
My short term memory, thinking ability, dexterity, hand grasping, equilibrium, all took hits and effected my waiting tables.
Last Friday, I had made one too many mistakes, could not be on time, no matter how early I started to prepare and the next day, I was fired.
Staring at the text message from my boss, in shock, hearing the yelling, anger and accusations, from my ex, in the other. I couldn't even dry off after my shower. I was numb.
I totalled out only car...
That same evening, around 11:45 pm, driving to get a Big Mac in thick fog, I slammed into the broad side of a deer at 50mph. The car was hissing, smoking and the front end crumpled. Basically undrivable.
I turned it around, best I could and called my ex. who screamed unintelligibly. Once in the driveway, he came running out in the yard yelling, and chased me back into the house.
I was physically assaulted...
Running to my room, the screen doors plexiglass panel came flying into the living room with him, barreling towards me.
Trying to lock my bedroom door when, he broke it off the hinges, grabbed and shoved me to the floor, but not before I fell into my glass shelf.
Trying to lock my bedroom door when, he broke it off the hinges, grabbed and shoved me to the floor, but not before I fell into my glass shelf.
I need a safe, calm, healing home for me and my dogs, far away from a toxic relationship.
Please help...
As mentioned before, any dollar amount will do. It's for my life.
