Jadea's Scoliosis Journery

My family is not one to ask for help. To be honest our pride is hurt but there is no other option. March 11, 2021, which happened to be our son Jayce's 6th birthday, we found out that our 13 year daughter, Jadea has SEVERE Scoliosis. We went to the doctor for a routine well child appointments and when she checked her heart beat as she put her hand on her back she immediately said "Jadea please stand up and bend over!" That one sentence changed Jadea's life forever.  We have had 3 consultations with 3 different doctors and all the outcomes were the same, surgery! After weighing our options we have decided our best and most comfortable option is Dr. Pahys in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. Although we feel like this is the best option it will also come as a huge stressor. I lost my job last March and have been a stay at home mom until now... I am working 4 jobs; instacart, Spark Nutrition, door dash, and subbing for the schools. All to make money to help fund this trip to Pennsylvania. We do have good insurance so that is one positive thing in our favor. However there are many things we have to worry about financially; getting to Pennsylvania (plane tickets) as we are traveling from Indianapolis, IN, hotel for 1 to 2 nights once there, possibly a rental car for the first night there, food while there, a new bed since her current bed is a loft bed which she will not be able to climb into after surgery, and a few other things including her stepfather (the bread winner of our family) will be out of work for a week or more without pay due to not having any vacation left (we are exploring FML).  We know alot of people are hurting financially that's why this is so hard for us to do however we don't have many options... please help us with this stressful and life changing situation we are facing..also please pray for our families strength as I will also be away from our other 3 children while in Pennsylvania with Jadea. If you have any questions please feel free to reach out to me. THANK YOU from the bottom of our hearts!