In Remembrance of Vincent Thach

Dear friends, family, and everyone in between,

It is with a devastatingly heavy heart to share with you that my dearest cousin, Vincent, passed away last Saturday on January 27, 2024 at the age of 26.

Those fortunate enough to have crossed paths with Vincent understand that he was perfectly unique in a way that is limited by language. However, if you have stumbled upon this message and have not met him, please allow me to share with you a piece of him.

Vincent was intelligent, attentive, and exceptionally imaginative. One of his most evident gifts was his strength to be unapologetically unique, free of external approval which allowed him to passionately pursue and deeply appreciate various hobbies with a child-like curiosity. He loved games, anime, and exploring new hobbies such as skiing, hiking, archery, dance, and dragon boat.

Vincent was a tender hearted individual. He radiated an unparalleled kindness, patience, and positivity that was contagious. For lack of better terms, he was a truly genuine person that touched the hearts of every existence he encountered. These traits have manifested and are substantiated in his powerful bond with his friends, which he loved like family. When we look back at Vincent and his legacy, we can see sprinkles of his uniqueness in everything and everyone he loved and everyone that loved him.

I would also like to share with everyone the strength I have witnessed from Vincent’s family: his mother-- Anna, his father-- Walter, and finally, his younger brother-- Raymond. My aunt and uncle have displayed an admirable and unconditionally pure love for their son. Raymond has been the pillar of support for his family for years and has continued to do so throughout this ordeal. Although he is two years younger than me at 23, he has become my role model. It has been a privilege to have grown up with this family.

These past two weeks have been filled with a seemingly unending over encumbered grief. It has been difficult and will continue to be difficult; there is no timeline for grief. In these times of powerlessness, all we can do is offer unwavering support for his family. Let’s remind Vincent’s family that they are not alone and that we are grieving with them. As we grieve, we unfortunately also face financial responsibilities. All donations will go towards funeral and medical expenses. If you are unable to donate, please also consider sharing this fundraiser and spreading the word. If you would like to donate or contribute in other ways, please feel free to reach out to me through GoFundMe.

In honor of Raymond’s selflessness, let’s remember to be patient and empathetic with each other. In honor of Vincent’s life, let’s remember to slow down, take a deep breath, take in your surroundings a little deeper, and love a little harder. Life is short, let's remember to appreciate it and always choose kindness, the same way that Vincent did.

My brother from another mother, I miss you dearly already. I can say with profound confidence that all of your friends and family, near and far, share these emotions. We love you, forever.

Thank you all for joining us in celebrating Vincent’s life and legacy.

Kathleen