In Loving Memory of Natasha-Supporting Her Amazing Children

In Loving Memory of Natasha – Supporting Her Three Beautiful Children

Hi, my name is Kelsey Trauer, and I’m organizing this fundraiser alongside Bob Arbuckle and Addie Fellhoelter. Bob was a long-time co-worker and friend of Natasha, and I've been friends with Natasha since middle school. We are heartbroken to share that Natasha has passed away, leaving behind her three incredible children: Aubri (18), Jr (17), and B (13).

Natasha was truly one of a kind—a friend to all, a fierce and loving mother, and a woman who never met a stranger. She considered everyone family. She had a gift for making people feel seen, included, and supported. Whether it was through her infectious laugh, her love of music, or her ability to turn any moment into a good time, Natasha brought joy wherever she went.

She dedicated her career to helping others, especially individuals with disabilities, and she worked tirelessly—often 50 to 60 hours a week—to provide for her kids. She did everything she could to be at every game, every concert, every milestone possible. She was a kick-ass mom who made sure her children never went without—not just for their needs, but for their dreams.

Now, we are coming together to support the three people who mattered most to her:

Aubri (18) just graduated high school with honors and plans to attend KU in the fall to study neuroscience. She’s witty, driven, and works at Starbucks to help support herself. Natasha was Aubri’s only parent throughout her life, and their bond was incredibly strong.

Jr (17) is a hilarious, adventurous spirit who loves golf and sour candy. He’s currently mastering plumbing in school and is excited to begin his career after graduation.

B (13) is a bright, creative soul who loves softball, band, Halloween, and spending time with her friends. Aldo Her father passed away a few years ago, and she is now without both parents.

This fundraiser will help cover both immediate needs—such as housing, food, clothing, and counseling—and long-term goals, including education, transportation, extracurricular activities, and future life milestones like weddings and careers.

In addition to financial support, we would love to offer emotional comfort to Natasha’s children by collecting stories and memories from those who knew and loved her. If you ever shared a laugh, a moment, or a memory with Natasha, please consider leaving it in the comments section. We plan to create a memory book filled with your stories, photos, and kind words to remind her kids just how loved and unforgettable their mom truly was.

Natasha gave everything she had to her children. Now it’s our turn to give back and help carry her love forward. Every donation, no matter the size, will make a difference in their lives.

Thank you for your kindness, generosity, and support.

We do not have a date yet for her Celebration of Life and will share the date once it is confirmed.