On the 16th May 2025, we said hello and goodbye to our beautiful baby boy, Finn Lewis Armstrong. In the midst of heartbreak, we were given the precious gift of time with him - time made possible by the use of a cold cot. It allowed us to hold him, love him, and create memories that we will carry with us forever.

To honour Finn’s memory, his daddy and some people close to us are taking on the incredible challenge of running Manchester marathon in April 2026. We are raising money to fund an Abi Cooling Cot for another grieving family, giving them the same chance to say goodbye in their own time. 

We’re also supporting some other amazing charities:

4Louis, who supported us with a memory box filled with keepsakes we will cherish for the rest of our lives.

Remember My Baby, who offer free remembrance photography for families who lose their baby before, during or shortly after birth.

Aching Arms, who place comfort bears into the arms of grieving parents.

These charities help families like ours in their darkest moments, and we want to give something back in Finn’s name.

Every penny raised will go directly towards supporting these charities and helping families through the unimaginable pain of baby loss. Thank you for standing with us, and for helping us honour Finn’s short but beautiful life.