In Loving Memory of Deborah “Auntie Dee Dee” Lynn Smith

My name is Shafaye, and I’m asking for your support as my family navigates the heartbreaking loss of someone who meant everything to us—my aunt, Deborah Lynn Smith, lovingly known as Auntie Dee Dee.

Auntie Dee Dee wasn’t just our aunt—she was like a second mother. She helped raise us, guide us, and love us in a way that only someone truly special can. Every other weekend, she would come pick me and my siblings up, and those moments became some of the most cherished memories of our lives. We laughed, played games, and spent time together as a real family. She would cook for us—her quiche was unforgettable—and she made sure no one ever felt left out. That’s just who she was.

She was a loving, humble, and deeply caring woman who always saw the good in people. But she was also honest—if you were wrong, she would lovingly tell you about yourself because she wanted the best for you. She believed in growth, in kindness, and in staying strong no matter what life brought your way.

Auntie Dee Dee loved her family with her whole heart—her husband, her children, and her grandchildren were her world. She also had a beautiful creative spirit. She loved to paint and draw portraits that reflected how she felt or what was on her mind. Music was part of her soul, and one of her favorite songs was “Good Morning Heartache” by Billie Holiday—a song that now feels especially close to our hearts.

She left a lasting mark on all of us. She gave my daughter her middle name, “Lynn,” so she could always be part of our family tree. That’s the kind of legacy she believed in—keeping family connected, strong, and rooted in love.

My sisters and I each carry special memories of her:

    •    To my sister Lela, she was a second mother and her biggest supporter—always encouraging her to chase her goals and be the best mother she could be.

    •    To my youngest sister Melissa, she was a voice of strength, always reminding her to keep her head up, stay positive, and never give up.

Losing her to cancer has left a hole in our hearts that can never be filled. And the pain has only deepened, as her husband is now battling dementia after her passing. Our family has truly been shaken, losing one of the last aunts we were so deeply close to.

Right now, we are asking for help during one of the most difficult times in our lives. The funds raised will go toward holding her body and allowing us the time we need to give her the proper funeral or memorial she deserves, including cremation. We want to honor her life in a way that reflects the love she gave so freely to all of us.

If you’ve ever had someone in your life who felt like a mother, who showed up for you no matter what, then you understand this kind of loss. We are asking not only for donations, but also for your prayers, your shares, and your support.

Anything you can give means more than words can express.

Thank you for helping us honor Auntie Dee Dee’s life, her love, and her legacy.

With love and gratitude,

Shafaye & Family