I’m literally losing everything; I need help
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Hi everyone, I’m in danger of losing everything I’ve worked so hard to get. 4.5 years ago I decided to save my life from drugs and alcohol and be the woman and mother I knew I was meant to be. I struggle sometimes but I have managed to get by. But the last few or more months have been VERY hard on my family. Due to an unexpected 14 day hospital visit, being on restrictions since, losing my job because of it and my insurance not covering everything, I have about two weeks until I lose my house. My car is also in danger for repo, my tags are expired, my insurance lapsed and when it rains, it pours!! I also recently got a ticket not even realizing my tags were bad. I have traffic court AND eviction court on the same day. I’m terrified. I’m tired. I’m EXHAUSTED. I have done literally everything in my power to make money just to keep the lights on (by the grace of God, I don’t know how but the lights are still on somehow) and stay out of the streets and keep my babies happy. But, I don’t know what else to do. I’m turning to my community and reaching out for any type of help/donation/advice/encouragement/prayers.
Anything will help us. I am a giver, and I promise that I will return my gratitude in someway or another. I have reached out to charities and churches but everybody is out of funding due to a lot of people needing financial help right now. I am an honest, hard-working woman and I am and have been trying but I need some help right now. If you can find it in your heart to help me and my family out, I will be forever blessed and I thank you in advance to anyone who can help. I hope everybody has a very Merry Christmas, God bless you all.
***UPDATE (12•21•23)***
I had eviction court my landlord doesn’t even want me here anymore because I’m so behind So, I had no choice and am choosing to take it to trial in hopes that I can somehow get all of my behind rent, pet rent, utilities and late fees paid by then. If I can’t, I’ll be forced to move and I’ll have an eviction on my record. Landlords don’t like evictions so I don’t know what I’m going to do, it’s going to be really hard to find a place to live now. I don’t think I have ever been this stressed out, ever. All I can think about is the heartache that my children are going to have to go through! IT BREAKS ME.
I also had traffic court the same day-and with not being able to afford new tags and new insurance, I was obviously cited so on top of needing tags and insurance I now owe another $320 for my ticket.
I feel like I cannot catch a break and I feel like my world is CRASHING down on me.
I added up the EVERYTHING that I would need funds for and I went into STRAIGHT panic. It’s SO much. I didn’t realize I was this behind. I can’t put into words the FEELINGS I feel right now…Ashamed, being number one. I really have no clue what I’m going to do. I’m going to lose everything. I can’t even fathom the thought of being homeless again, especially with my 3 kids!
BUT IN THE CHAOS OF EVERYTHING, I WOULD REALLY LIKE TO SAY SOMETHING-Every time I receive a notification saying I have a new donation, I cry. I cry because my community gives me hope. I cry because I am BEYOND grateful, thankful and blessed for my community and everyone who has donated to help save my family. I cannot even begin to express my gratitude…It leaves me speechless. To those who have given to my family and I, I thank you from the bottom of my heart and I will be forever grateful for your kindness and pure hearts. You guys are giving me the strength to be hopeful and fight. Thank you, to everyone. Thank you to the ones who have helped so far, thank you to the ones who have taken the time to read my story, thank you to the ones who have given me advice, thank you to the ones who have prayed for us, thank you to the ones who have helped spread my story…
Because of you guys, there’s hope.
THANK YOU ♥️
Anything will help us. I am a giver, and I promise that I will return my gratitude in someway or another. I have reached out to charities and churches but everybody is out of funding due to a lot of people needing financial help right now. I am an honest, hard-working woman and I am and have been trying but I need some help right now. If you can find it in your heart to help me and my family out, I will be forever blessed and I thank you in advance to anyone who can help. I hope everybody has a very Merry Christmas, God bless you all.
***UPDATE (12•21•23)***
I had eviction court my landlord doesn’t even want me here anymore because I’m so behind So, I had no choice and am choosing to take it to trial in hopes that I can somehow get all of my behind rent, pet rent, utilities and late fees paid by then. If I can’t, I’ll be forced to move and I’ll have an eviction on my record. Landlords don’t like evictions so I don’t know what I’m going to do, it’s going to be really hard to find a place to live now. I don’t think I have ever been this stressed out, ever. All I can think about is the heartache that my children are going to have to go through! IT BREAKS ME.
I also had traffic court the same day-and with not being able to afford new tags and new insurance, I was obviously cited so on top of needing tags and insurance I now owe another $320 for my ticket.
I feel like I cannot catch a break and I feel like my world is CRASHING down on me.
I added up the EVERYTHING that I would need funds for and I went into STRAIGHT panic. It’s SO much. I didn’t realize I was this behind. I can’t put into words the FEELINGS I feel right now…Ashamed, being number one. I really have no clue what I’m going to do. I’m going to lose everything. I can’t even fathom the thought of being homeless again, especially with my 3 kids!
BUT IN THE CHAOS OF EVERYTHING, I WOULD REALLY LIKE TO SAY SOMETHING-Every time I receive a notification saying I have a new donation, I cry. I cry because my community gives me hope. I cry because I am BEYOND grateful, thankful and blessed for my community and everyone who has donated to help save my family. I cannot even begin to express my gratitude…It leaves me speechless. To those who have given to my family and I, I thank you from the bottom of my heart and I will be forever grateful for your kindness and pure hearts. You guys are giving me the strength to be hopeful and fight. Thank you, to everyone. Thank you to the ones who have helped so far, thank you to the ones who have taken the time to read my story, thank you to the ones who have given me advice, thank you to the ones who have prayed for us, thank you to the ones who have helped spread my story…
Because of you guys, there’s hope.
THANK YOU ♥️
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Hailey Chapman
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Redmond, OR