On May 3, 2026, the DeBoe family’s lives were forever changed by the tragic and senseless loss of our beloved friend and colleague, Valerie DeBoe; her 28-year-old daughter, Hailey Megan Dempsey; and two of Hailey’s young daughters, who were only 4 years old and 4 months old.
Valerie was a long-time colleague and, more importantly, a dear friend to so many. She was a devoted wife, mother, grandmother, mentor, and leader. She was especially joyful in this season of life as “Gigi” to her three grandchildren.
As Valerie’s husband of 30 years and her surviving sons, ages 26 and 18, face unimaginable grief and overwhelming challenges, we want to surround them with love, support, and the reminder that they are not alone.
Your generosity can help ease some of the immediate and ongoing burdens they are facing, including funeral and memorial expenses, legal expenses, counseling and trauma support, and everyday living expenses as they begin to navigate life after this tragedy.
Every donation — no matter the amount — will help provide relief, stability, and support during an incredibly difficult time. If you are unable to donate, please consider sharing this fundraiser and keeping Valerie, Hailey, the children, and their loved ones in your thoughts and prayers.
Thank you for your compassion, kindness, and support for a family who has lost so much.
Organizer and beneficiary
Kirby DeBoe
Beneficiary





