In Loving Memory of Mary Lu “Meeka” Wear

A Beautiful Life, A Heartbreaking Loss, and a Community Coming Together

It is with profound sadness and heavy hearts that we share the tragic passing of Mary Lu Wear, lovingly known as “Meeka,” who lost her life at the age of 86 on the evening of October 9, 2026.

At approximately 8:15 p.m., Meeka stepped outside her Apple Valley home to look after her beloved dog, Benji. In a heartbreaking accident, she was struck by a vehicle and tragically lost her life at the scene.

Meeka was a beloved mother of seven children, grandmother of four, and great-grandmother of nine. She was the heart of her family, a treasured friend to many, and a woman whose warmth, kindness, and love touched the lives of everyone fortunate enough to know her.

Throughout her life, Meeka built lasting friendships and meaningful connections in Apple Valley, Big Bear, and Fawnskin, California. She was loved by so many, and her sudden passing has left an unimaginable emptiness in the hearts of her family, friends, and community.

Even at 86 years young, Meeka continued to embrace life with enthusiasm and a wonderful sense of purpose. Most recently, she had been helping her daughter and granddaughter bring a special dream to life through the opening of the Buc N Doe Restaurant in Fawnskin. She was part of the heart and soul of this family endeavor, and her presence, encouragement, and love will forever be woven into its story.

What should have been another ordinary evening at home turned into an unimaginable tragedy. In a single moment, a family lost its beloved mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother, and a community lost a dear friend.

A Loving Request for Support

As Meeka’s family struggles to come to terms with this sudden and devastating loss, we are reaching out to our friends, neighbors, and the communities of Apple Valley, Big Bear, and Fawnskin for support.

We are humbly asking for donations to help cover Meeka’s unexpected funeral and memorial expenses, so that her family can honor her life with the beautiful and dignified farewell she deserves.

Any contribution, regardless of the amount, will be deeply appreciated. For those unable to donate, sharing her story, offering a prayer, or sending a message of love and encouragement means just as much.

Meeka spent 86 years creating a legacy of love, family, and friendship. Though her life ended suddenly and tragically, the love she shared and the memories she created will live on for generations.

In times of unimaginable sorrow, the kindness of a community can make all the difference.

On behalf of Meeka’s entire family, we extend our heartfelt gratitude to everyone who has reached out, offered condolences, and shown compassion during this incredibly difficult time.

Rest in peace, beautiful Meeka. Your love will remain in our hearts, your memory will live on in our stories, and you will never be forgotten.

With love and heartfelt appreciation,

The Family and Friends of Mary Lu “Meeka” Wear

Please consider making a donation or sharing this memorial fundraiser to help us celebrate Meeka’s life and give her the farewell she deserves. ❤️