Hi everyone,

My father passed away on March 31, 2026, in Selma, California. He was 79 years old, a widower, and a proud Vietnam Veteran who served 12 years in the United States Air Force.

I am his only child, and I live over 3,100 miles away in Boston, Massachusetts. Navigating everything from across the country has been incredibly difficult—emotionally and financially. From handling arrangements to managing his affairs, it’s been overwhelming to do this alone and at a distance.

I’ve created this fundraiser to help cover the unexpected costs that come with laying him to rest and settling his estate, including:

Funeral and memorial expenses

Legal and probate fees

Travel and related costs

Any additional expenses that arise during this process

Any support you can offer—whether through a donation or simply sharing this page—would mean so much to me during this time.

Thank you for helping me honor my father and take care of what he left behind.

With gratitude,

Joel L. Windham