Honoring Jeff Christiano: A Beloved Husband and Father

It is with shattered hearts that we share the sudden and unimaginable loss of Jeff- a beloved husband, devoted father, cherished brother, son and friend to so many. Jeff passed away peacefully in his sleep, leaving behind his wife Brittany and their two young daughters, Decker (6) and Daegan (3).

Jeff was the kind of person you felt lucky to know. Quiet, thoughtful, and deeply kind, he had a gift for making people laugh at just the right moment. His presence was always felt- steady, comforting, and full of love.

His family was his entire world. Whether it was curling up on the couch watching Moana or The Lion King for the 75th time, throwing the girls in the pool, or simply holding his girls close, Jeff poured every bit of himself into being the best dad and partner he could be. He was Brittany’s rock and Decker and Daegan’s hero.

Brittany writes:

“It feels as though my heart has been torn from my chest. We lost not only my beloved husband, but the father of our two beautiful daughters. I take solace knowing he passed peacefully, but I am still shattered.

Decker and Daegan adored him- he was their world. Every birthday, every graduation, every milestone will never be the same without him. His towel still hangs in the bathroom. His shoes are still by the door. I keep wishing this is a nightmare I’ll wake from.

Jeff, our love for you is immeasurable. I tell the girls you’re in the sky now, watching over us, and that you’ll always be in their hearts. I promise they will never forget how deeply you loved them. We miss you more than words can ever say.”

As we rally around their family in their darkest moment, we are asking for your help. The funds raised will go directly to supporting Brittany and her daughters, helping with funeral expenses, immediate needs, and long-term support for the girls’ future.

In addition to the immense emotional loss, Brittany now faces the challenges of caring for their daughters on her own. Their oldest daughter, Decker, has cerebral palsy and requires additional services, therapies, and equipment to support her growth and development. Jeff was deeply involved in Decker’s care, attending therapy appointments and cheering her on at every milestone. Supporting this family will help ensure Decker can continue receiving the care she needs during this difficult transition.

If you are able to contribute, please know that any amount, no matter how small, makes a meaningful difference. And whether you can give or not, please help us by sharing this page and keeping Brittany, Decker, and Daegan in your thoughts and prayers.

Jeff’s memory lives on in the love he gave, the laughter he shared, and the beautiful family he left behind. Thank you for helping us honor his legacy by lifting up the people he loved most.

Services will be held:

Wake:

Monday 7/7/25

2-4PM

7-9PM

Branch Funeral Home

190 E Main Street

Smithtown, 11787

Funeral Mass:

Tuesday 7/8/25

9:45AM

St. Patrick's Church

280 E Main Street

Smithtown, 11787

Burial to follow next to Jeff's home