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Honoring Jay Whaley: Support His Widow

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My name is Joshua Coffey and I'm raising money after the unexpected passing of my stepfather, Jay Whaley.

After a lifetime of near misses, Jay and my mom finally started dating in the summer of 2010 and married 5 months later. They built their lives together focused on camping, visiting the lake, cruising around the Caribbean, trying new restaurants, and spending time with their family and friends.

Anyone who was blessed to know Jay would agree that he was the life of the party, a force of positivity and levity that was bound to raise any spirit. Whether you were losing to him in cards, pool, washers, or even a drinking contest, you wanted to keep playing because even losing to Jay was a good time.

While Jay had been struggling with medical issues over the last few years, this occurrence came so fast and felt out of nowhere, shocking the family and leaving us all shattered.

Any funds you contribute will go towards helping our family cover the costs of:
  • Visitation/Funeral Service Expenses
  • Cremation and ash care services
  • Settling of debt (medical/misc)
  • Arrangement of larger estate sale/downsizing

This fundraiser will go a long way in assisting Melissa Whaley recover from this tragedy as she navigates her grief. Our heartfelt gratitude will never be enough, but we will say it together anyway. Thank you!

-Joshua Coffey
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    Sainte Genevieve, MO

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