Honor TJ’s burial wishes

Hi, my name is Deborah, I’m TJ Eric Law’s wife. I’m starting this GoFundMe because this is somewhere I never thought I would be and never thought I would have to ask for help for something like this. I never thought he would pass away so young and so suddenly and none of us were ready for this. I don’t know what’s going to happen or how this is going to work out but I do know that my husband wish to be buried and I want to honor his wishes and honor him in the best way we all can. He has lived in Manteca his whole life I would like to have a funeral and memorial service for him in Manteca and bury him in French Camp, where we have a lot of memories. I want to give him a memorial and a burial that he would approve of and be proud of. One that he would look down on us from heaven and smile upon. I wish to give Justice, our son, a service for his dad, that honors his dad and shows our son just how many people cared for him and loved him. I also want to give that to my husbands family, he was the oldest son and he was the first to pass. This is so hard on all of us. I would like to do things right by all of them and I know that I cannot do this by myself so I’m gonna ask for help so we can do what we feel needs to be done. At this point I don’t know if anything is going to be covered by his work or benefits or just how much. (Updated: So far what I’ve learned is that they may be an accidental death pay out available but everything is on hold until final cause of death is determined and medical examiner says autopsy will take 6 months to be finalized and released.) I just know I need to start moving forward and let everything just fall into place. Please keep our son in your prayers. I just want to say anything helps, even the smallest amount and anything you can do will be so very appreciated and if you can’t, please just share. Thank you everyone! Over the last few days I just wanna say that I really am humbled and have so much gratitude for all the support kindness, we’ve received. It has been very calming and very comforting. We will never forget it, I will never forget it! Thank you! ❤️