Hi my name is Erika, and I'm asking for my beloved godfather, Brian, who was an amazing human being, someone who always showed love and kindness. He passed away on Wed October 8th, 2025. Brian was so much more than a husband, a friend, and a godfather—he was a true servant of the community. Brian lived every day with purpose, giving his time, energy, and heart to uplift others.
Brian had a deep love for people. He believed in justice, in standing up for what’s right, and in serving those who were most in need. Through his work with Meals on Wheels, he delivered hot meals to neighbors who otherwise might have gone hungry. Beyond that, he was always present in the community—supporting local causes, lending his voice to activism, and leading with the compassion and empathy that defined him.
To know Brian was to feel seen, valued, and cared for. He leaves behind his senior widow, Carmen. Together, they shared a lifetime of love, but with no children to help shoulder these responsibilities, Carmen now faces not only this heartbreaking loss but also the unexpected financial burden of his cremation and memorial services.
We are reaching out to ask for your support. Your generosity—whether large or small—will go directly toward covering Brian’s cremation, memorial costs, and some expenses, lifting some of the weight from Carmen’s shoulders, and ensuring that we can honor him in the way he truly deserves.
If you are unable to give, we ask that you please share this campaign with others who knew and loved Brian. Every donation, share, and prayer means the world to us.
Brian spent his life lifting up others with kindness, empathy, and service. With your help, we can give him a farewell filled with that same love and dignity.
With gratitude,
Erika, Shannon, and Amy
Organizer
ERIKA BENITEZ
Organizer
Alameda, CA



