Adaija Symone Bender, born December 5, 2002, in Harrisonburg, Virginia, passed away on August 18, 2025, at the age of 22. Though her time here was far too short, Adaija’s vibrant spirit, determination, and love touched countless lives.

From a young age, Adaija’s passion for basketball shone brightly. She began her high school career at Harrisonburg High School before transferring to Woodbridge High School, where her quiet leadership and relentless work ethic helped guide her team to the VHSL State Championship in 2019. A Division I athlete, Adaija earned numerous awards across her seasons of play, leaving behind a legacy of excellence on the court.

Adaija was a true free spirit — authentic, loyal, witty, and strong-willed. She had a sharp mind, a generous heart, and a spark that drew people in. She loved fiercely, spoke her truth, and lived life on her own terms with independence and confidence.

She is survived by her daughter, Oakland Rai; her mother Angela Williams and husband Rhasheyd Williams of Woodbridge, VA; her father Richard Madden of Harrisonburg, VA ; her sisters Trinity Bender, Haile Madden, Shanta Bender, Haiden Madden, and Kaliana Madden, her uncles Nevin Bender, Conrad Bender (Beth Formica Bender), and Jason Madden; her aunt Marcia Bender (Scott Hepler); and her grandmother, Lourene Bender. She is deeply loved and will be forever missed.

A celebration of Adaija’s life will be held on Saturday, August 30, 2025, at 1:00 PM at Cornerstone Christian School 197 Cornerstone Lane Harrisonburg, Virginia.

Those wishing to honor Adaija can help support Oakland’s future by contributing to her education fund here.