!!! PLEASE NO JUDGEMENT! WE’VE BEEN THROUGH ENOUGH ALREADY !!!

My very disabled child and I (also very physically disabled and severe PTSD and Trauma) got suddenly, without warning, kicked out of Cams, my 10 yr now Ex Boyfriends and 13 year long friends and our home.

He yelled at me loud enough for my child to hear: “You need to take your fucking child, your stupid dog and leave MY house IMMEDIATELY!!!”

He was upset that I calmly explained to him that I was slightly upset about how he neglected my child since Saturday the 25th July when I thought I could leave my child with him when I had to drive myself to the Emergency room because my whole upper body was starting to get numb and tingly and my breathing was getting harder and harder to do.

So we have started being homeless at 11pm Monday the 28th, 2025 being homeless.

We never fought or argued but started having calm discussions about his changed behavior in the past 3 months.

His behavior continuously became worse by the day.

We literally had nowhere to go, even overnight. And he was very aware of that situation.

I have been trying for a very long time in every way (even suggested to pay for counseling) to save what we had going for 13 years.

I’ve been trying to help him for years, and things have been escalating to this point.

I am worried that his mental and/or physical health may have been impacted, leading to his erratic behavior.

To be honest he has also not been very nice to our dog Panzer anymore throughout the years and i had to intervene a lot.

So please try to help there also.

How i said Cam refused any attempt of help from me. 

He also made sure my car would break down.

I had asked him multiple times over the past week to check my cooling fluid.

It was old and needed to be topped off. Now mind you he works on cars all his life.

He refused to do that.

So when I drove around town helping my community, which I do every chance I get, my car overheated and broke down. 

He said he knew a friend at a local garage and to bring the car there. I trusted him, so of course I did.

I told them to just let me park the car there but not start any work yet because I wouldn’t get paid (a very small amount of disability for my child) until August 1st. They agreed.

BUT my now ex went behind my back talking to them, saying to DO look at my car, out of earshot of me. They did not double-check with me. I had a bad feeling, so I left a voice message Friday evening repeating that they needed to wait to do any work because of my finances.

My now ex again went behind my back Monday morning and went down there while I was in the hospital and told them to look at my car.

Please notice that I NEVER gave the ok for this.

I found out 3 hours AFTER they started looking so the cat that they were indeed checking out my car already without asking me if that was ok.

My now ex told them that I would pay for this.

Again, I had told them I don’t have the funds yet, and since my ex spent all my money I had saved up, he knew also. 

He had also asked for some gas money for his 2023 Challenger.

At first I told him no, explaining I had only $40 left for the rest of the months, which made him upset.

I felt guilty and ungrateful for not helping him so I said he can get $10 in gas until I get more.

I gave him my debit card.

He used all the money and filled his tank up.

I didn’t even realize he kept it until he made us leave.

He got extremely upset when I asked for it back.

Now they car repair place odd of course insisting I pay the labor money, acting like they’re doing me a favor by only charging 1 hour labor before I can get my vehicle back.

We really truly desperately need all the help possible. And if all you can do is share, it will mean the world to us. 

My child and I already have severe PTSD, severe Trauma, Anxiety and Depression. My child is also very much struggling with Type 1 Diabetes (insulin dependence), high functioning Autism and was just about 2 weeks ago life flighted to Omaha Chidrens and could have easily passed away then.

My now ex was very aware of that but did not bother to even attempt to come see my child or even call or videochat. That should have told me something there already, but I thought maybe he just was not able to do so. 

Now I was just 7 days ago rushed to the hospital via ambulance with fainting and other severe health issues. He did not bother to call to see what was going or call or text to see how I was feeling.

I had to let my kid stay with him because the hospital said the kid wasn’t allowed up there with me.

The entire time in the ER and under observation I had to worry about my child instead of me because he did never in 6 years since my child’s Diabetes diagnosis even attempt to learn how to count carbs which was literally all he had to do. He would had to feed my child (with food I always provided for ALL of us, including my ex) 3 meals a day and at least 2 snacks a day. Count the carbs and tell my child how many carbs to put into the insulin pump.

He got very irritated with me when I called him every time my child’s blood sugar was bad and to ask if he was feeding my child. Which he was not!

He also refused to bring my child to see me even once, even tho he was asked multiple times by me child. 

My kid also wanted to talk to me and he would not let him use his phone.

When I was finally discharged from the hospital, he did NOT come pick me up. So the hospital paid for a taxi for me to be able to go home. When I came home my child greeted me extremely enthusiastic and happy. He on the other hand didn’t even care. So I finally found the strength to very calmly explain to him that I was slightly disappointed in his behavior. But that I would still give it a chance if that’s what he still wanted. I asked him to please think about what he wanted to do moving forward and that I would love nothing more than to make things work. That I highly appreciate everything he has always done for us and is still doing. But that I would want him to please change back to the man I first got to know, love and appreciate.

He was very upset that I calmly expressed my feelings but went into his bedroom to what I was thinking was think about things.

I literally heard him snoring instead from about 100 feet away with his door latched shut. After about 2.5 hours he came back into the living room, sat in his chair and was about to turn the TV on. Instead of giving me an answer.

So I asked him what his decision was. He got very angry with me.

He yelled at me in a very violent matter that I had to take my “f’ing child, stupid dog and myself and leave HIS house IMMEDIATELY. 

He gave me about 5 mins to get the most important things like medications my child’s comfort items and then proceeded to violently yell that I would have hell to pay if we weren’t out in 2 mins time.

He is in possession of firearms and I seen what he is capable of when he is extremely angry so I was very afraid for our lives and left with his old car with no place to go

We need help with funding to get our things moved out of HIS house ASAP before he goes through with his threat in the picture. And help with a storage place where we can store out this till we get a permanent place to live hopefully in the near future.

Thank you for everything. Thank you for reading and please please please share or donate.

I am also trying to say thank you I’m advance and show appreciation from all 3 of us in advance!!!

Jess, Kalani, and Mauser