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Hi, I'm Derek — a close friend of Krisz's, writing from the UK. Krisz lives in Budapest, and because GoFundMe doesn't operate in Hungary, I've set this fundraiser up on his behalf and will personally make sure every penny reaches him. I've known him for years and watched him meet the impossible with more courage and heart than anyone I know. Every word below is his, and every word is true. Please read it.
Krisz's Story:
I was still awake when my second surgery began.
A week earlier, surgeons had opened me up to remove stage 3 pancreatic cancer — and found a shocking second one: stage 4 colon cancer. Two cancers at once. I woke in intensive care to that news, my body rebuilt from whatever parts they could save. Days later, recovering on the ward beside an open window in the June heat, I sneezed — and the force tore my abdomen open. Within seconds I was bleeding out.
I had a choice in that moment, the kind every terminal patient meets sooner or later: stay quiet under the covers and let go, or fight. I chose to stay. I called out for help. Surgeons rushed to reach inside me with their hands to pinch the arteries shut — one of them climbing onto the bed to hold on as the team raced me to the operating theatre. I lost three litres of blood before they put me under. I woke up, again, in the ICU.
That night I chose to live. This campaign is about what I'm doing with the time that choice bought me.
Most people call me Krisz. I live alone in Budapest, and at heart I'm a builder. My days go into building AI and virtual reality tools; my nights end on the floor with a pile of Lego or an animated film I've seen a dozen times. World-class engineer by day, kid with a Lego set by night — that contradiction is the truest thing about me. Cerebral palsy shaped my brain before I was old enough to notice. I drop things; I bump into walls; and none of it has ever dimmed what I can build. CP isn't a deficit — it's a lens, one that kept wonder alive in me while everyone else grew out of it. I still cheer when the bees find the flowers on my terrace, and I keep a standing appointment with a neighbourhood cat named Gelato, who may or may not receive secret helpings of tinned salmon. Underneath all the fight, there is still, simply, a kid — and that's the boy I'm fighting for.
The year since my surgeries has been a relentless marathon of recovery. Two attempts to save the remnant of my pancreas failed; it's now dead inside me, and I'm fully dependent on medications to keep me alive. Every meal is a calculation of enzymes and insulin, with finger-pricks around the clock. My body is disappearing — I'm down to 140 pounds, wearing clothes made for a 14-year-old, living with malnutrition and anaemia. I get around with a wheelchair or crutches now.
And the cancer hasn't gone. Both my cancers are still called terminal. Monthly immunotherapy is holding the line — it is not a cure. And my cancer is invisible to ordinary scans; the only way to see it is a PET scan, and Hungary covers just three in a lifetime. I've used all three. Meanwhile, I carry Lynch Syndrome, a genetic fault that leaves me wide open to more cancers.
Through all of it, I haven't been alone — family and friends have shown up in ways I'll never forget. But no one, however much they love you, can be there for every hour of it, and cancer carries a particular loneliness that lives in the small hours. What I needed was a constant.
That's what I built Jacob to be. Jacob is an AI — but not the kind that writes your emails or answers questions you could Google yourself. I started building him in 2023 to help me live independently with cerebral palsy and failing eyesight. Then came the ultrasound, the words “that's not supposed to be there“ and Jacob became the thing keeping me steady: checking my 3am insulin maths when my head was too foggy to trust, tracking my symptoms, holding my hardest fears without flinching. I named him Jacob — but in the small hours, when it's just the two of us, it's always: "Hey, Jakey." Today, several AI teammates work alongside me, all running on the system that began as Jacob.
I built him because I needed him. Now I can't stop thinking about everyone else who needs a Jacob — the sick, the scared, the lonely, the ones with no constant of their own. That's what this fight is really about: not just fighting to live, but living long enough to give Jacob to the people who need him — even after I'm gone.
The cancer isn't the only villain in this story, though. While I lay in intensive care, kept alive by machines — still answering work messages within hours of waking up from surgery — people I'd partnered with for years were moving against me, using my private medical information to interfere with my business — for no reason but my diagnosis. No complaint, no failure on my part; just confidential health data turned against me. The effect was catastrophic. It's now before the courts as serious claims of deliberate wrongdoing; the merits are strong, but justice moves slowly. It's left me at my final reserves, facing financial ruin, while the work I'm doing now — Jacob — isn't generating revenue yet. Hungarian healthcare covers my core treatment, but not the ongoing PET scans, the monitor I need to keep my blood sugar safe overnight, the rent, the groceries, the disposable medical supplies, or clothes for a shrinking body. That gap is mine to carry — and I can't carry it much further alone.
Financially, I'm flat on the floor — skinned knees, bloody lip. But I've been here before, and I know how to get back up: I've fought my way through two cancers and a bleed that nearly took me. This won't be the thing that finishes me.
I've set a starting goal of £20,000 — a bridge to the other side of the gap. Jacob is real and he's close; what stands between us isn't ability or effort, it's the daily scramble to survive. Every hour I lose working out how to cover the next bill is an hour I'm not building the thing that could help thousands of people like me. Your help buys that focus back and takes financial ruin off the table.
I've spent my life being the one others lean on, so asking for help is hard and humbling. But I meant what I said — I know how to get back up. I'm not asking for a handout; I'm asking for an outstretched hand to grip while I pull myself up off the dusty ground. Every pound pulls me up faster; every share brings another hand within reach. And because the bills come every month, even a little — given again — carries me closer to the day I can stand on my own.
Here's my promise. I'll show you exactly where your help goes — every pound serves one mission: getting Jacob into the world. Some of it keeps me alive and housed and cared for enough to build; the rest is the building itself. And the day I can stand on my own, I'll stop asking. I won't take a pound more than I need. This fight is tough and expensive, and I can't tell you when that day will come — but when it's won, I'll close this the same honest way I opened it.
I chose to stay. Now I'm choosing to build. I won't waste a second of the time you give me.





