On February 14, 2026, our world changed forever. My in-laws, James and Toni Ivey, were tragically killed in a car accident along with their beloved dog, Buddy.
They were deeply loved parents, family members, and friends. The loss is sudden and devastating, and we are still trying to process the reality of life without them.
Thankfully, they had good insurance, and their funeral expenses are covered. They also had an estate plan in place, and we are incredibly grateful for that. However, the road ahead will still be long and difficult. Their son James, their daughter Gretchen, and I are now facing the overwhelming responsibility of settling their estate, managing legal matters related to the accident, and navigating the many unexpected expenses that come with a loss like this.
Many people have reached out asking how they can support us during this time. Your prayers, messages, and love mean more than we can express. For those who feel led to help in a tangible way, we have created this GoFundMe to assist with:
• Extensive travel and time away from work
• Ongoing family needs during this transition
• Estate-related expenses not covered by insurance
• Legal fees as we pursue accountability
Every contribution, no matter the amount, helps lighten the burden and allows us to focus on honoring James and Toni’s lives as we move forward. Funds received in excess will be donated to charities and non-profits that James and Toni supported.
If you are unable to give, we completely understand. Sharing this page and keeping our family in your thoughts and prayers is just as appreciated.
Thank you for loving our family through this unimaginable time.




