Early December 2025, my father went to the doctor for what we believed were symptoms of diabetes. Routine bloodwork and a chest X-ray unexpectedly revealed something far more serious. In addition to being diagnosed with type 2 diabetes, the X-ray showed signs of a collapsed lung, which led his doctor to order a CT scan. That scan revealed a tumor in his lung.

Further testing followed quickly. An MRI with contrast of his chest and abdomen showed lesions on his liver, kidneys, adrenal glands, lymph nodes, pancreas, and lumbar spine bone marrow. A subsequent brain scan revealed more than a dozen lesions in his brain, the largest approximately the size of a golf ball in his frontal lobe. On January 13, 2026, we were told he had days to weeks to live.

After careful consideration, my father made the incredibly difficult decision to decline treatment. He is currently receiving in-home hospice care, where he is surrounded by family and kept comfortable. We have medications and nurses available as needed, and our focus is on making his remaining time as peaceful and dignified as possible.

We have done everything we can financially and have applied for disability benefits, but the waiting period is approximately five months — time that, tragically, we do not have. My mom has always been fiercely independent and did not want me to create this fundraiser, but the reality is that the financial burden of end-of-life care, household expenses, and lost income has become overwhelming.

I know times are hard for everyone, and we are deeply grateful for any support — whether that is a donation, a share, or simply keeping our family in your thoughts. Anything helps during this incredibly difficult and heartbreaking time.