Hello everyone.

It is with overwhelming sadness that I write this.

I am someone who doesn’t like to ask for anything, ever. But my family, especially my mother and stepfather, have been put in a very difficult and sad situation.

We have just been informed that my loving stepfather, who is only 52 years old, a man who has devoted over 20 years to public service for the disabled, a man who has raised my grandchildren as their step-in grandfather, a kind and gentle soul, has cancer in his bone-marrow and is in dangerous condition.

This came after a misdiagnosis of “muscle spasm,” which was actually the collapse of two vertebrae that were in horrible shape from a lifetime of working with heavy lifting. He is quickly deteriorating, under intense medications, and unable to work or safely walk without support. The collapsed vertebrae make it very difficult and dangerous to move.

He has not been able to sleep in his bed since his pain started over a month ago. He is unable to access his room or shower.

I know this is a significant amount to ask, but the number is not random. We have to find a way to make the home handicapped accessible before he or my mother, his caregiver, gets seriously and permanently injured. His is bones are incredibly fragile right now; without the proper equipment, they risk permanent damage, paralysis, or more physical trauma. He is completely out of work, and she is very limited to work time as she now spends most of her days transporting him to appointments and taking care of his needs, which also means no or very little money is coming in from their jobs until they figure out some alternative services and get them into action. They also have two children they foster and financially support. So besides the medical equipment and alterations necessary, they face the costs of simply living.

Any amount is greatly appreciated. If you cannot donate, we understand but ask that you keep him in your prayers and hearts.

Despite not having much, both people involved have spent most of their life finding ways to give to the community, and I have faith that the community will find a way to help them in their time of need.

Thank you for reading.