Help Fund the Vagina — The Penis Is Being Evicted!

Hi, I’m Abi Holly, I’m 26 years old and I identify as a non-binary transgender woman. Yes… you read that title correctly. The penis is being evicted! But behind the cheeky title is a very personal and important goal: I’m raising funds for my gender-affirming bottom surgery (vaginoplasty).

I live with level 2 Autism, ADHD, an intellectual disability, scoliosis and kyphosis, which significantly affect my ability to find and maintain stable employment. I currently receive the Disability Support Pension through Centrelink, and with everyday bills and the rising cost of living, saving tens of thousands of dollars for surgery simply isn’t financially realistic for me.


My current estimates put my fundraising goal at approximately $36,200 AUD, including an estimated $35,000 surgical cost with private health insurance and around $1,200 in additional costs. These figures may change as I progress through my surgical journey.

My journey to this point has been a long one. In 2018, I realised I wasn’t meant to live my life as a man. In 2019, I came out as bisexual and joined TikTok, where I found a place to express myself and discover my voice. In 2020, I publicly came out as a transgender woman. After years of waiting and uncertainty, 17 October 2025 marked another huge milestone when I began my medical transition with oestrogen patches and testosterone blockers. Now I’m approaching the next chapter: bottom surgery. Vaginoplasty is a form of gender-affirming genital surgery that reconstructs the genital anatomy to create a vulva and, depending on the surgical technique, a vaginal canal. For me, this isn’t simply about changing my body. It’s about feeling more comfortable, authentic and at home in myself. After everything I’ve been through, reaching this point would be an enormous full-circle moment.

 Donations will go towards my surgery and directly related expenses. If I raise more than I ultimately need, my intention is to use any and all remaining funds to help other transgender people facing financial barriers to gender-affirming surgery, subject to applicable fundraising requirements. You don’t have to donate to support me. Sharing this fundraiser can be just as valuable. Whether you donate $5, $50, or simply share my story, you’re helping me get one step closer.

 So let’s do this.

Let’s get this vagina funded. Let’s evict the penis.
And let’s get Abi one step closer to feeling at home in her body. ☁️

Thank you for reading, donating, sharing and supporting me. It genuinely means more than I can put into words.

With love,
   Abi Holly