Help us with the surgery, physio, home schooling and care

My son has severe scoliosis, requiring major back surgery. He turns 15 today but can't get in for surgery for at least 6 months. He will be basically bed ridden and need 24 hr supervision whilst also needing to have daily physio. I, myself being a veteran will struggle to help him with this. I just want my son to get all the help he can so he doesn't end up in a wheelchair for the rest of his life. Any help is much appreciated. I feel bad asking for help as an ex soldier but I was med discharged and know how hard it is to go through life 'broken' and I don't want that for my son. He will have his whole life ahead of him if we can just get your generosity.

Many thanks.