We are working on relocating from Florida to New York to be closer to my work office in New York City and to get away from everything Florida-y about Florida.

We are looking for help in covering the moving/relocation costs as my employer has declined/refused to help in anyway because it's not "mandatory."

I am hoping to avoid having to donate/throw out a lot of my essential stuff and have to rebuy once in NY, on top of shipping/moving costs for a small trailer, and the costs associated with finding a new place, and paying security deposit and other fees.