
Help us put our beautiful angel to rest.
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Hi, everyone! I started this fundraiser to help my father inlaw with the unexpected financial stress of putting his wife to rest. My mother inlaw Sandy has been sick for the past 3 weeks. On Sunday May 16th Sandy fell and had to have 911 be called. She was brought to a local hospital where they found out she had a kidney infection. She was then transferred to another hospital to see specialist. They started her on high doses of antibiotics to try fighting off the kidney infection. Monday came and I received a phone call saying she has kidney stones that is blocking so she has to go into surgery to get them out and have a Stent put into place to help drain the infection. 30 mins after I received the phone call I received the phone call, they told me my mother inlaw is Coding and unresponsive. My father inlaw, husband and I rushed to the hospital to be with her. By the time we got there she coded 4 times ( first time for 7 mins, the other 3 was for 5 to 3 mins). While they where doing chest pumps on her she spit up alot of blood which found out she was bleeding internally. So they had to hook her up to life support and put her in a medical induced coma. After that she was stable. We decided to stay at a hotel right next to the hospital to stay close to her. She made it through the night. We thought no news is good news. We'll we got a phone call at about 10am to ask permission to do emergency surgery to place a Stent in her kidney in the regular hospital room. They could not take her to the operation room due to her not being stable. We did give our consent even though she had a 20% chance to make it through the surgery. We got to the hospital and found out that she made it through 100% successful. Her vitals seemed like they where stabilizing. We got hope. Then the doctor asked us how long are we willing to keep her on life support. We as a family decided 3 days and reevaluate. Within an hour of our decision things took a turn for the worst and that's when we found out she was DCI meaning the infection was in her blood stream all through her body and she was not going to make it. As a family we decide to take our beautiful angel off life support and move on to paradise. For those of you that don't know my mother inlaw sandy she was the most caring, loving selflessness person you could ever know. She was a wife that took care of her sickly husband, a mother, a grandmother to 4 children ages 12,9,5 and 4 she was also a best friend. Due to this being so unexpected we are having financial trouble to be able to pay the medical bills, funeral arrangements and also the normal house Hold bills. Like I said my father inlaw is also in poor health she took care of him. If you could donate anything every dollar counts if you can not donate we only ask 2 things of you.
1) share share share
2) please go hug your loved ones because your never promised a tomorrow.
God bless you all and send love to everyone who reads this. ❤
Organizer
Dasha Kersten
Organizer
Kenosha, WI