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Help us honor Roger’s life and support his son

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In Loving Memory of Roger — A Devoted Father, Brother, Son & Friend

Thank you for taking a moment to read this. Even opening this page means the world to our family. Your time, thoughts, and support—no matter how big or small—are deeply appreciated during this incredibly painful time.

Our family is grieving a loss that words can hardly express. Just five weeks after we said goodbye to their beloved mother—who passed away after a long battle with dementia and health complications—Roger, age 41, passed away on June 20.

We believe the heartbreak of losing his mother weighed too heavily on Roger’s heart.

A Life Defined by Loyalty, Love & Fatherhood

Roger was the kind of person who always showed up. In high school, he had my back no matter what—whether someone was being serious or just joking, Roger would always step in and stand up for me. That was his nature: protector, loyal friend, and someone who loved with his whole heart.

He was:
    •    A proud father to his son Jordan, who meant the world to him
    •    A family man who kept us close and showed love in the everyday moments
    •    A passionate cook who loved sharing meals
    •    A lifelong Michael Jordan fan

He was a bright spirit, and we are devastated to lose him so soon.

Why We’re Asking for Help

Losing two beloved family members just weeks apart has left us emotionally overwhelmed. We’re asking for your help to:
    •    Cover funeral and memorial costs
    •    Support Jordan, who is now grieving without his father
    •    Honor Roger with the dignity and love he gave to others

Whether you can give $5 or $500, every donation helps ease the burden. Even if you’re not able to contribute, please consider sharing this link—that alone means the world to us.


A Quote That Speaks to the Pain of This Moment

A quote from The Wolverine that deeply resonates with how this grief feels:

“Eternity can be a curse. It hasn’t been easy for you, living without time. The losses you have had to suffer. A man can run out of things to live for. Lose his purpose. Become a ronin. A samurai without a master.”

Roger’s passing feels like that kind of pain—a heart too full of grief to carry on. But in his memory, we carry the strength he showed us every day.

Thank You From the Bottom of Our Hearts

Your support—whether it’s a donation, a prayer, or a simple share—means more than words can say. You are helping us lay Roger to rest, support his son Jordan, and honor a life that gave so much to others.

From all of us: thank you. Truly.

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    Claudia Vargas
    Organisateur
    Planada, CA

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