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Update - mom is on day 4 of hospice now and they're saying it could be anytime. Her breathing is beginning to slow down but her blood pressure is still holding steady. Output is beginning to slow down as she's no longer eating or drinking. Mama is very peaceful and I can't brag enough about the facility and all their staff. As of now we just make the best of what time is left. I just want to say thank you to everyone who's donated to help towards the costs of her final arrangements. All the prayers, comments and shares mean the world to me. We were fighting for success, definitely didn't think I'd lose mama at only 63 years old.
Since August 25th mama has had a steady decline. September 1st we learned that my mother suffered multiple bilateral watershed strokes and that's when life changed. For 3 years mama has been diagnosed with stage 4 metastatic breast cancer and has maintained that status until recently. The amount of time she spent sick or in the hospital we were unable to administer any chemo which was taken orally. I brought mama home with me September 4th where me and the boys became her primary caretakers. Due to insurance unless I committed to hospice there was no help with supplies, medical equipment or any necessary items. We had to fight, I needed more answers. As of today she will be transferred into a hospice facility and we will begin her transition. Unfortunately we didn't plan this far ahead as far as burial insurance or any life insurance policies so the financial end of her cremation falls on me. I'm usually one to never ask for help but after this month I've exhausted almost everything. Everything happened so quickly and this past month has a been blur. Me and my family are grateful for any help and all prayers. I have to go this week and make her arrangements and I will also update by adding the facility and I'm sure donations can be directly sent to them as well. I will also attach her cashapp for those who may chose to send donations directly.
Above all, my boys have never suffered a loss this greatly. I will be able to handle myself as good as possible but my boys need prayers they love their MiMi fiercely.





