Hi I’m Tobi. Please help me escape my abusive ableist transphobic household in rural East Texas. My parents are violently transphobic, homophobic, ableist, sexist, racist. I have no access to safe community. I’m severely disabled mentally & physically (long COVID, ME/CFS, BPD, CPTSD, etc) which makes it really hard to work. I’ve been trying to save money to move for over a year but have to cover my own medical expenses and transportation. I’ve been called slurs, kicked out, hit, and so much more.

On top of my family being abusive in so many ways, my house is falling apart. The sink is rusted and flooded, dishes overflow cause the cabinets have been overtaken by bugs, our toilet doesn't work, the bathroom sink is flooded too, each crevice in the house is caked in dust and dirt. I see mice regularly.

I’m looking to relocate to Oregon with my cat to be with people I love and trust ASAP. I’m scared to even post this with the fear they’ll find out. I’m not safe here at all. PLEASE HELP!